Coaching, Self-Cultivation|March 31, 2009 3:57 pm

What enables us to change our behaviour?

  • Awareness of behaviour we want to change
  • Awareness of what triggers poor responses and why
  • Reframing experiences
  • Pressure from our peers
  • Encouragement from our peers
  • Pressure from cultural norms
  • Encouragement from our cultural norms
  • Confidence in own ability
  • Willingness to find a better way
  • Comfort with uncertainty
  • Linking habits and conduct with outcome
  • Hitting rock bottom
  • Understanding of how success is achieved
  • Sleeping, eating, and exercising well
  • Self-reflection, self-Awareness
  • Letting others tell us what to do
  • Practicing the new behaviour
  • Remembering what is important in life
  • Self-scrutiny applied with kindness
  • Encountering a deep injustice
  • Stepping back and seeing the bigger more meaningful picture
  • Knowing how to change self from past experience
  • Choosing to take responsibility

What have you found that works?

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1 Comment

  • - Understanding immediacy of consequences
    – Repeatedly asking “so what?” to reframe in terms of deep-seated values

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